A Thankful Addiction

1There’s a story I came across on the internet some time ago. Maybe you’ve heard it. It’s the story of a young man by the name of John who was given a parrot as a gift. However, the bird had a bad attitude and filthy tongue. So John worked hard to change its behavior and clean up its vocabulary. But nothing seemed to help. So, one afternoon as the parrot let loose with a new stream of profanity, John lost it. He yelled at the bird and shook the bird, but that only made it angrier.

Finally, in desperation, he grabbed the bird by the neck and threw it in the refrigerator. For several minutes, the parrot squawked and kicked and screamed and then it grew deathly quiet. Afraid that he’d hurt him, John opened the freezer door, and to his surprise, the bird walked out, calm as could be, and took a seat on John’s arm. “I’m afraid I owe you an apology,” the parrot said. “I know I offended you with my rude behavior. I want you to know that I’m very sorry. I promise you that from this day forward I’m going to work hard to change my behavior.”

Surprised at the bird’s change of heart, John was about to ask him why, when the bird continued, “By the way, I know it’s none of my business, but may I ask you, what did the turkey do wrong?”

Tomorrow is Thanksgiving. Can you believe it? Unfortunately, sometimes I’m just like that parrot (And you are too!)—stubborn, uncooperative, and ungrateful as my Master seeks to develop a new spirit within me. This is why Psalm 32:9 warns us as it does: “Do not be like the horse or the mule which have no understanding but must be controlled by bit and bridle or they will not come to you.” We get stuck in our discontentment and miss out on the joy God has for us. Listen to this poem I clipped from Dear Abby’s column years go. It comes from the pen of Jason Lehman who was just 14 years old at the time, wise beyond his years. I think it captures the heart of our problem. He writes:

2 It was spring, but it was summer I wanted, the warm days and the great outdoors. It was summer, but it was fall I wanted, the colorful leaves and the cool, dry air. It was fall, but it was winter I wanted, the beautiful snow and joy of the holiday season. It was winter, but it was spring I wanted, the warmth and blossoming of nature.

I was a child, but it was adulthood I wanted, the freedom and the respect. I was 20, but it was 30 I wanted, to be mature and sophisticated. I was middle-aged, but it was 20 I wanted, the youth and the free spirit. I was retired, but it was middle age I wanted, the presence of mind without limitations. My life was over, but I never got what I wanted.

So often isn’t that the case? The Bible says that God has given us everything we need for life and godliness. But instead of being content with what He’s given, so often we’re restless searching for something more that’ll bring us fulfillment. But with the help of the Holy Spirit, we can bring an end to that search tonight. 1 Timothy 6:6 says, “Godliness with contentment is great gain, for we brought nothing into this world, and it is certain we can carry nothing out. Therefore, having food and clothing, with these let us be content.” 1 Thessalonians 5:16 adds, “Rejoice always, pray without ceasing, in everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.”

 And from our passage this evening—tonight I want to take a break from the book of Daniel to address the topic of thanksgiving and praise—and in Hebrews 13:15, the writer says (no one knows for sure who he was—Paul, James, Barnabas) but what he says is powerful. “Through Jesus, therefore, let us continually offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, the fruit of lips that give thanks to His name.” Praise is one of the most important things we do as Christians, and to see why, I’d like to emphasize 3 facts about it.

I. Praise Is Pleasing to God.

Notice again what the author calls it. He calls it “a sacrifice of praise to God,” which immediately tells us something, because it’s a word he repeats throughout the book of Hebrews—13 times to describe the animal sacrifices of the Old Testament and once to describe the final sacrifice of Jesus Christ on the cross to pay for our sins. And that tells us something. It tells us that praise is as serious to God as a sacrifice offered for sin.

In fact, David says it’s even more important than that! Psalm 69:31—“I will praise the name of God with a song, and magnify Him with thanksgiving. And it will please the Lord better than an ox or a young bull with horns and hoofs.” What’s David saying? He’s saying that praise is more pleasing to God than all the lambs and bulls and goats that were sacrificed in the Tabernacle and Temple. Praise is the most pleasing sacrifice of all. And what was true then is just as true today. More valuable than all that we do for God—teaching, giving, serving—more important than all these things is the attitude with which we do them. Are we doing them with an attitude of gratitude and a heart of praise? Because what pleases God most is “a sacrifice of praise, the fruit of lips giving thanks to His name.”

Psalm 107 adds this: “Oh that men would give thanks to the LORD for His goodness, and for His wonderful works to the children of men! Let them sacrifice the sacrifices of thanksgiving, and declare His works with rejoicing.” And the point is this: God has been good to us every day of our lives, and not only to us, but to all the children of men. And so we ought to praise Him, not simply because He deserves it, but because He desires it.

Isn’t that incredible? The King of the Universe desires our praise. Not out of a sense of need. Some people think the reason God created us was because He was lonely and needed someone to keep Him company. But nothing could be farther from the truth. A lonely God is an imperfect and incomplete God, and our God has never been incomplete. From eternity past, Father, Son, and Holy Spirit enjoyed perfect love with one another, which was so full that it overflowed and He created us, not because He needed us, but because He loves us and enjoys receiving our praise. Isn’t that amazing! You and I can bring joy to the heart of God simply by giving Him praise. And of course, what pleases Him is also good for us. Think how much of a day’s unhappiness and temptation could be avoided if we simply learned to be content with what we have. Instead, we spend inordinate amounts of energy and emotion craving and scheming to get what we believe our all-knowing and all-loving God has forgotten to give us.

3 I love the way Garrison Keillor, the great storyteller of Lake Wobegon fame, puts it. He says, “Some luck lies in not getting what you thought you wanted, but in getting what you have, which once you have it, you may be smart enough to see is what you would have wanted had you known.”

So in answer to the question, “How important is praise to God?” The answer is: It’s all-important—so important that when the Holy Spirit inspired the writing of the Bible, He made sure an entire book was dedicated to it. We call it the book of Psalms—the longest book in the Bible filled with praise emanating from every experience of life. That’s fact #1: Praise is pleasing to God, more than any other sacrifice we can give Him. Fact #2:

II. Praise Is Costly to the Worshiper.

That’s why it’ called a “sacrifice,” not only because of its seriousness to God, but because of what it costs the worshiper to offer it. Remember the story that Nathan the prophet once told? King David had committed adultery with the wife of a poor man because she was beautiful and he thought he could get away with it. But the woman became pregnant. So to cover it up, the first thing David did was lie, and when that didn’t work, he had the poor man killed. But God loved David too much to let him get away with it. So He sent the prophet Nathan to confront him with his sin. But you have to be tactful when confronting someone with their sin, especially a king. So Nathan made up a story about a poor man who owned a lamb that was precious to him and his children.

4The lamb shared his food, it drank from his cup, and it even slept in his arms. Then one day his rich neighbor had a visitor, but instead of butchering his own sheep to feed him, he stole the lamb of the poor man. When he heard it, David was furious until Nathan said to him, “You are that man, O King! God gave you everything your heart desired, but what did you do? You stole your neighbor’s wife, and killed him to cover it up!”  David went on to repent of his sin. But my point is: The reason that story worked is because it was an experience that was familiar to every Jewish worshiper. Every year at Passover Jewish families were required to sacrifice a lamb in the Temple—a lamb that had become precious to them by then—raised as a family pet, loved by the children, and allowed to roam in and out of the house at will. So when the time finally came to lead it up the path to the Temple, there was sorrow in that experience, but also joy, because the worshiper was sacrificing something that was precious to him. As David said when he sacrificed the burnt offering and dedicated the altar to the Lord in Jerusalem, “I will not give to the Lord that which costs me nothing!” Because he knew that for our worship to be genuine, it has to cost us something.

5We, of course, no longer offer sacrifices in an earthly Temple, for when Jesus died on the cross, He said, “It is finished! The work of salvation is done.” But we do have a sacrifice to make, and what’s that? Our text calls it a “sacrifice of praise, the fruit of our lips that give thanks to His name.” And why is that a sacrifice? Because it isn’t always easy to do! A friend disappoints us. A son or daughter rejects the values we’ve taught them chooses to go the way of the world. Our health fails. Our retirement account takes a major hit. A loved one falls ill and dies. What do you do then when you feel anything but thankful? You say what Job said! “Naked came I from my mother’s womb and naked will I return. The Lord has given and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the name of the Lord!” They say that talk is cheap and that anybody can praise the lord. But that isn’t true, not if it’s the right kind of talk and our praise is genuine. Because that kind of talk is both very costly to the worshiper and highly pleasing to God, for it comes from a heart of faith.

Joseph Scriven knew what it was like to offer that kind of praise. His plan on graduating from Trinity College was to marry a beautiful Irish girl he’d fall in love with. But the day before their wedding, his bride-to-be drowned in a river. Unable to find any comfort at home, Scriven left Ireland and sailed for Canada where tragedy struck again. Falling in love a second time, his fiancé contracted tuberculosis and died just days before the wedding. How does a person of faith cope with heartache like that? Scriven did it by writing words of praise and we still sing his song today.

 What a friend we have in Jesus, all our sins and grief to bear! What a privilege to carry everything to God in prayer! O what peace we often forfeit! O what needless pain we bear! All because we do not carry everything to God in prayer!

 The truth is: Life has been comfortable for Christians in this country. Few of us have ever faced the kind of persecution that’s a daily experience for believers in other countries. That may change in days ahead. In fact, I had a terrifying dream last week in which the Bible was outlawed in this land and I was being tortured for my faith in Christ—beaten with a rod, teeth pulled out with pliers—because I wouldn’t stop preaching the truth. It was a terrifying dream from which I woke up thinking, “Gary, you’d better get a lot tougher than you are right now, because difficult days could be just around the corner. I hope that isn’t true. But it could be. And if you and I ever have to suffer for our faith in Christ, what will our reaction be? The same as that of the disciples in Acts chapter 5 who, when flogged for their faith, it says afterwards, “They went on their way rejoicing that they were counted worthy to suffer shame for the name of Christ.”

Few of us have ever had to face that kind of suffering. Yet you know what? We can still bring great glory to God by using whatever we do suffer—illness, job loss, death of a loved one—as an opportunity to offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, the fruit of our lips giving thanks to His name, saying, “The Lord gave, and the Lord has taken away. Blessed be the name of the Lord.”

6That’s the legacy of the Pilgrims, isn’t it, and why we talk about them every year at this time—not because they were the first to thank God. Countless people had done that before. The reason we remember them is because they did in the midst of great suffering and sadness. Let me take just a moment to remind you of some of the hardships they faced. That first winter of 1620, they lost 47 of their 102 people to death—nearly half their original group! In February, the death rate was two a day. 13 out of 18 wives died. Only 3 families went untouched by death. But by the second winter, things were better. So they decided to celebrate a thanksgiving meal with their Indian friends who gobbled up all their supplies. About this time, new settlers also began arriving from England, and their rations had to be cut to just 5 kernels of corn a day. How do you survive on 5 kernels of corn a day?

They endured great hardship that winter, but by the grace of God, no one died. So when the third November came and they saw the abundance of the crops, they held a great day of Thanksgiving, and again they invited the Indians—120 braves this time. And together they feasted on pork, turkey, venison, chicken, nuts, grapes, plums, and dozens of other delicacies. A fabulous feast with plenty for all! But what was the first item placed on everyone’s plate? 5 kernels of corn—just to help them remember.

7 Praise is pleasing to God, costly to the worshiper, and fact #3—

III. Praise Is to Be Our Habit.

How does Hebrews 13:15 put it? “Through Jesus, let us frequently offer up a sacrifice of praise to God, the fruit of lips that give thanks to His name?” No, it doesn’t say that. It says it’s something we’re to do continually, at all times and under all circumstances, no matter how rough the going gets. “In everything give thanks, for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus concerning you.” Or as the Psalmist puts it, “I will bless the Lord at all times. His praise shall continually be in my mouth.” You see, the truth is: Anyone can praise God when the sun is shining and everything is right with the world. But what about those dark days when the future isn’t nearly as certain and we’re forced to walk by faith and not by sight? That’s when praise becomes precious and powerful because it proves to God and everyone else who’s watching that we really do love and trust Him even when we aren’t sure what the outcome will be. And that takes work—hard work!

Mothers know this better than anyone else. For example, I’m thinking back right now to report card day and a promise I made to our girls because they’d done so well in school. I promised that I’d take each of them out to lunch at their favorite restaurant. Rebecca picked Dairy Queen—not exactly my idea of fine dining—but that’s what she wanted. So I said to her as I headed off to the work, “Great! You get dressed, have Mom brush your hair, and I’ll be back at noon to pick you up.” So I come home at 11:30, half an hour before we’re to leave, and what do I find? I find her grousing and griping at her mother, frustrated that she’s had to wait so long. So what do I do? Here I am, about to take her out to lunch as a reward, and she has an attitude problem. And I don’t want to reward her for that!

So I send up a quick prayer, ask for wisdom, and suddenly I hear Cheryl, who was a fantastic mother, correcting her in the other room: “Now listen here, young lady, I’ve had enough of this. You’re going to sit down on that couch and change your attitude, or you’re not going anywhere. I want you to think of at least 5 things right now that you’re thankful for. Do you hear me?” “Yes, Mom,” she says. “Then get started!” And you know it wasn’t but 2 minutes later that I heard her say, “OK, Mom, can I get up now?” “Have you thought of what you’re thankful for?” “Yes, I have.” “Then you come out here and tell me what they are.” So she did. She said, “I’m thankful for my school. I’m thankful for my church. I’m thankful for my Dad.” And she listed several other things, and then she asked, “Mom, what are thankful for?” So Cheryl named several things she was thankful for. And back and forth they went for at least 5 minutes. And you know it was amazing! By the time they finished, her attitude was altogether different. She was the happiest and most grateful little girl in the world, and we had a great time at lunch together.

8And friends, you and I are no different. As long as we’re complaining, our Heavenly Father isn’t free to give us anything. But when we take time to realize how good He’s been to us, it not only changes our attitude; it puts us on the path to developing a whole new habit of thanksgiving! And that’s what praise is meant to be: a habit, a custom, and a whole new lifestyle in response to never-ending goodness of God. So let me ask you. What are you thankful for tonight? Salvation in Jesus! The freedom to worship! The friends and loved ones God has given you. How does the old hymn put it? “Count your blessings. Name them one by one, and it will surprise you what the Lord has done.”

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4 responses to “A Thankful Addiction

  1. Blessings from my house to your house, Pastor Gary and Cheryl! I am thankful for this message! :0) If I was able to recall each day I have lived these 66 years, I would be able to see that God has been good to me every single moment of my life. By His power I live and by His power I have been saved and by His power I shall rise after I die. By His sacrifice in Christ He calls me righteous, not because I am but because Jesus was. He declares me innocent in Christ. My Creator put on flesh and dwelt among us so that my sin could be laid on Him. My mother used to tell us to count our blessings. She would say things like, “I complained because I had no shoes until I met a man who had no feet.” She also said, “When I am afraid, I will put my trust in the Lord.” My closest moments with my God and Father have been when a song would come to my mind and I would sing to Him alone while driving down the road. Then the hand of Jesus touched me, and now I am no longer the same. Oh the joy that floods my soul. Something happened and now I know, He touched me and made me whole. I have found that the Lord would rather be adored than analyzed. So I join you and your wonderful wife this Thanksgiving Day, and give thanks to the God of grace who continues to cause the rain to fall on the just and the unjust. He listens to us complain about the rain and sends some more because He knows what we need. I am thankful for God who loves me and provides all I need according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus. <

    • Wow! Beautiful thoughts, Bruce! Thank you for your comments and the love of Jesus that you and Linda show to people throughout our community. Your light is shining brightly. God bless you guys. Gary and Cheryl

  2. Just loved the parrot joke! I had heard this joke before, but completely forgot about it. Thanks for refreshing my ‘joke file,’ I need to tell it to 4 people this coming week so I will have ready to share . . . Thanks, Dr. Schwarz

    • Thanks for the comment, Dr. Pousche! I think it’s an old Swindoll joke. But I laugh whenever I hear it. If you have any good jokes, send them our way. We love to laugh, which is one of the reasons we love you so much. You are always so full of joy. Get better. We’re all praying for your health. Gary and Cheryl

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